MUSASHI
HOW TO DEAL WITH BULLIES
Quote from: "ionno"MUSASHI
HOW TO DEAL WITH BULLIES
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Ok, so here's what I do: I Ignore them. With a capital I. zing. Except when it's Bike, because I like bikes.
But Awsome Dan and the others go into the server i am in just to bully me :cry:
not to hijack this thread but
there's some douche going around by the name of "Lord Damager" who keeps insulting this other "Ricky(numbers)" person
just giving him an extremely hard time when he's done nothing, telling him to "be a good boy" and "behave little Dicky"
you know just general prick stuff
normally I wouldn't say anything, but this has been going on for about a week solid and I'm getting tired of it
not to hijack this thread butThere's been a huge influx of people being huge jerks lately. Not just to Ricky456, but to a lot of other people. I usually just disconnect, change my username, and then reconnect and ignore. You have to speak up about it. Remember guys, it's just words over the internet. Everyone here (hopefully) has people in their lives that love and care about them. If you're getting sick of people being dicks to you over the internet, just take a break. Don't quit doing something you like because of other people. I'm not saying you need to deal with it -- you shouldn't have to -- but none of the mods are going to ban someone from the master server because they're being a dick, and I know that probably stings.
there's some douche going around by the name of "Lord Damager" who keeps insulting this other "Ricky(numbers)" person
just giving him an extremely hard time when he's done nothing, telling him to "be a good boy" and "behave little Dicky"
you know just general prick stuff
normally I wouldn't say anything, but this has been going on for about a week solid and I'm getting tired of it
Why does everyone act like trolls will simply go away if you ignore them? Because they don't. That's why Bik can't come play around Shmeckie's place anymore. No one provoked him, no one bothered him, he just couldn't stand having things he didn't like hosted, and would go on, and on, and on, and on, and get worse the more he was ignored.
"Just ignore them" never really works, especially for most internet trolls. They'll just up the ante until you do listen. Like a little kid bugging their parents; ignore them enough, and they'll yell louder, then start grabbing you, then start jumping up and down, etc.
Just now i left a Server completely filled with these so called Cyberbullies, they arent just a nuissance they pretty much are 20% of the people coming in and out and directly start doing theyr stuff :
Kick innocent players which even didnt say a word + insult disrespectly everyone + press Yes for any vote....
already known players like always "awesome dan" "glatzy" " magickarp" and many more ( Crasgers Server )
i bet the perma Ban list is just exploding with theyr names because they show up again and again and again
Maybe it would be better for all effort that Cutman put into this, to save this Community from this Bullies with more but a Ban.
They keep on doing day for day.
Of Course Experienced Players have a solution for this.
But Unexperienced Players will just quit this game and never will come back.
If you would count the mass of players these dicks are preventing from playing this game....
It is just not right to let em keep doing what they do.
If just 3 of these Dicks would be gone forever, this community would grow so rapidly with new players which follow our guidance + rules.
+ dickheads are getting bored to ( but not by letting them do what they want )
they made the whole server empty while i posted that
already known players like always "awesome dan" "glatzy" " magickarp" and many more ( Crasgers Server )I told Glazty about your claims, and this is how the conversation went.
i bet the perma Ban list is just exploding with theyr names because they show up again and again and again
Maybe it would be better for all effort that Cutman put into this, to save this Community from this Bullies with more but a Ban.
They keep on doing day for day.
If just 3 of these Dicks would be gone forever, this community would grow so rapidly with new players which follow our guidance + rules.
But Awsome Dan and the others go into the server i am in just to bully me :cry:Dont feel bad. Just trying to help you. Whats your name on MM8BDM? I Could help.
Quote from: "Megaman94"But Awsome Dan and the others go into the server i am in just to bully me :cry:Dont feel bad. Just trying to help you. Whats your name on MM8BDM? I Could help.
Here is some online gaming advice
- Be more picky of the servers you join (especially if admin is on a power trip)
- Don't reply, no-one gets the last word in an online altercation
It will go on foreve. Everyone wants to have the last word, and because of that, no-one will.
- don't stir the pot (golden rule comes to mind "do unto others. .....")
- know the server rules and be careful with cheaping, camping and betrayals
(If you accidentally team kill, Message saying sorry, if you get team killed assume it was an accident, don't get even
- ignore the user with the Zandronum function. Make sure you send them a message first
"Welcome to my ignore list"
- Rename your Avatar, only consider this if the user is recruiting others to harass you after being zandronum ignored
"Welcome to my ignore list"
Just now i left a Server completely filled with these so called Cyberbullies, they arent just a nuissance they pretty much are 20% of the people coming in and out and directly start doing theyr stuff :Sorry for not banning those guys, anyway, when my server went down, those guys disappeared.
Kick innocent players which even didnt say a word + insult disrespectly everyone + press Yes for any vote....
already known players like always "awesome dan" "glatzy" " magickarp" and many more ( Crasgers Server )
i bet the perma Ban list is just exploding with theyr names because they show up again and again and again
Maybe it would be better for all effort that Cutman put into this, to save this Community from this Bullies with more but a Ban.
They keep on doing day for day.
By the way Megaman94, what's your in-game-name now?
already known players like always "awesome dan" "glatzy" " magickarp" and many more ( Crasgers Server )My server is a magnet!
I bet the perma Ban list is just exploding with their names because they show up again and again and again
That is because Bikdark hates Saxton Hale with a burning passion.
Honestly, Bikdark is not all that bad. You can get used to him.
"Ew it's Alice"
How mature of those people I don't feel like mentioning the names of. Why did using Linux become a crime, community?
I don't think he tries to specifically come on your server. It might be easy to assume that because you're in your server more than others' servers. He made logical arguments that I actually supported, but I will agree that the way he presents his arguments makes them seem weaker. He just got mad that the majority of the server wanted 2 teams and you wanted 4. He couldn't leave because the only other thing that was up at the time was Vanilla, which gets relatively boring fairly quickly. He wasn't trying to get people to leave, he was trying to make a stand for what he believed in. Again, presentation is his weakest flaw (so I'm not saying he's perfect), but it's unfair to say he has some sort of illogical bias against you.
In the many arguments I've seen Bikdark engaged in, his reasoning is usually spot-on, but the delivery hurts his argument more than it helps. Most come to see this as him being an asshole for the sake of being an asshole because of that, and since he's usually arguing with the host of the server, he earns himself a nice shiny ban. It's his own damn fault.
Want proof? Bikdark used to come into Shmeckie's KY classes server and harp on him for not hosting YD classes. He started insulting Shmeckie and his server when Shmeckie would have none of it, and earned himself yet another nice shiny ban. He later blamed Shmeckie for the whole thing.
If you wanna get Bik annoyed, just act really stupid.or talk about critical hits heahheahea
One time Bik messed with me it was about some fake ass law that minors couldn't be on the internet. He threatened that he'd find my IP and get my parents arrested for not following that fake law. So It made me despise his guts and leave the server i otherwise would have enjoyed if he was not on.
One time Bik messed with me it was about some fake ass law that minors couldn't be on the internet. He threatened that he'd find my IP and get my parents arrested for not following that fake law. So It made me despise his guts and leave the server i otherwise would have enjoyed if he was not on.Are you talking about COPPA? last I checked that's a real thing
Quote from: "Jakeinator"One time Bik messed with me it was about some fake ass law that minors couldn't be on the internet. He threatened that he'd find my IP and get my parents arrested for not following that fake law. So It made me despise his guts and leave the server i otherwise would have enjoyed if he was not on.Are you talking about COPPA? last I checked that's a real thing
http://www.cutstuff.net/forum/faq.php#f0r7
Right there
I never even said anything bad about them, I just hosted them. If you don't want people to give advice for maps or play on them, then don't post them. :/
Due to a recent event involving cyber bulling from a fellow member of the Cutstuff Community, I will not be making anymore maps and I might leave Cutstuff and MM8BDM forever :(Sheesh. Hosting your maps and saying they are bad is Cyber Bullying?
Quote from: "Megaman94"Due to a recent event involving cyber bulling from a fellow member of the Cutstuff Community, I will not be making anymore maps and I might leave Cutstuff and MM8BDM forever :(Sheesh. Hosting your maps and saying they are bad is Cyber Bullying?
Everyone's entitled to an opinion, you know. Mappers NEED constant criticism. I'm a mapper and I can tell you the countless times someone said "These maps suck arse.". I still made more maps though, in fact, I'm STILL making maps. If you look at the maps I made, they start to look fairly decent the further you go.
It was just one guy.But now it has been 5 people who have bullied me since I joined this site.
Yes, you gotta know whom to trust. As such, I should make a list of people to never trust.Well, this has to be about the worst mentality I've ever seen. If you treat new people with distrust and suspicion, how can they feel welcome?
2. New players
7. Anyone with the name 'Player'. (Player, Player, Player, Player and of course let's not forget Player) (But of course, let's not jump to conclusions, I've met some really nice 'Player' guys here and there)There are a lot of random folks who show up with the name "Player" because they are new and haven't figured out how to set names yet.
9. Anyone on the servers who doesn't have a Forum account.Why? There are a ton of fun people out there who play the game without participating in the community, and some veteran players took a long time to join the forum. A disinterest in the community doesn't imply malice or anything.
Quote from: "OtakuAlex"Yes, you gotta know whom to trust. As such, I should make a list of people to never trust.Well, this has to be about the worst mentality I've ever seen. If you treat new people with distrust and suspicion, how can they feel welcome?
2. New playersQuote from: "Dr. Crasger"7. Anyone with the name 'Player'. (Player, Player, Player, Player and of course let's not forget Player) (But of course, let's not jump to conclusions, I've met some really nice 'Player' guys here and there)There are a lot of random folks who show up with the name "Player" because they are new and haven't figured out how to set names yet.Quote from: "Dr. Crasger"9. Anyone on the servers who doesn't have a Forum account.Why? There are a ton of fun people out there who play the game without participating in the community, and some veteran players took a long time to join the forum. A disinterest in the community doesn't imply malice or anything.
There are a lot of random folks who show up with the name "Player" because they are new and haven't figured out how to set names yet.That one about the "Players" was a joke.
Why? There are a ton of fun people out there who play the game without participating in the community, and some veteran players took a long time to join the forum. A disinterest in the community doesn't imply malice or anything.You have a point there. But I just find that most if not all the trolls here don't have forum accounts, or barely use them.
Personally, I see people who came from Doom servers are candidates for "Ignore". Many of the Doom players I've met so far won't stop talking about how MM8BDM sucks balls and, if I hear another one start disrespectfully talk to another girl of this community, I swear, I'm gonna lose it. Let's just say that, just because I don't curse doesn't mean I'm not afraid of making people go 'missing'
i just use the faggot alias as a way to troll trolls. If you wear insults with pride, then you cant be insulted :p
Crasger plays Doom
I see people who came from Doom servers are candidates for "Ignore".I should probably explain my responce some more. I said 'candidates' for a reason. All I was asking was to be careful around people straight from Doom, not just to ignore them as you see them. Oh, and, I don't know how this quote thing works so my quotingfrom my previous comment may come out weird.
Quote from: "LordDamager"i just use the faggot alias as a way to troll trolls. If you wear insults with pride, then you cant be insulted :p
ok but fyi if youre straight you shouldn't even be using "f*ggot" cus 1) youre reinforcing heteronormativity (http://civilliberty.about.com/od/gendersexuality/g/heteronormative.htm) and 2) its a slur used against lgbtqia people to discriminate and cause harm to them i mean thats pretty obvious.
so
dont do that (https://31.media.tumblr.com/ea14b566259ad040c94ced1485243602/tumblr_inline_mzxdxorLf81s8jg4t.gif)
yes but it's more than very often used with negative context and implication, especially when used by straight people
Point being what difference would it make if one person stopped using the word when others are still gonna use it regardless?
Well, that is true, but in this case, LD's referring to himself as the insult in particular while his trolling most of the time has nothing to do with referencing the concept of one other's sexuality (correct me if I'm wrong).
Yes, and I was called that in high school :cry:
*sigh* I said HE LITERALLY ABUSES IT ON ME WITHOUT ANY LEGIT REASON. Every little thing I say about him he ignores me for and it's stupid. He does things wrong and ignores me whenever I bring up any of them because he's been a jerk to people before and he should know so.
I understand using It when people get out-of-hand, but using it when someone says something little that you don't like is kinda pathetic.
Quote from: "ChaosUnlimited"*sigh* I said HE LITERALLY ABUSES IT ON ME WITHOUT ANY LEGIT REASON. Every little thing I say about him he ignores me for and it's stupid. He does things wrong and ignores me whenever I bring up any of them because he's been a jerk to people before and he should know so.
I understand using It when people get out-of-hand, but using it when someone says something little that you don't like is kinda pathetic.
I don't think you quite understood what I meant, so I'll try and explain it better.
If he's just ignoring you, whether or not it's using the command, then why does that matter? Why does it bother you so much that someone ignores you? Should everyone hear what you have to say? If you don't like him bothering you through text, just use the ignore command on him. I absolutely guarantee that you won't be bothered by him ignoring you or not.
I'm not sure why you're bothered by someone ignoring you. If he's ignoring you for you saying stuff about him, why not....not say stuff about him? If he's being a jerk, just call up a vote kick. If that doesn't work, just ignore him. It's not really that hard.
Bikdark, LD or AwesomeDan?Excuse me? :^):^):^):^):^):^):^):^):^)
It's gotten on my nerves as of recently that someone's been giving someone a hard time almost every time they're in the same server. I'll give you a hint: the one that calls Doom "Otaku's wet dream". The guy, probably along with others, using his past failed projects against him constantly (specifically a certain class pack). Otaku himself doesn't have a problem with it (in a sense), but I always end up in the server when this crap goes on and it's getting on my nerves.
(Inb4 suggests ignore) For the record, I don't believe that ignoring things will make them go away. Just saying.
Braixen comes to the server and I already know he's gonna bitch about something since that's all he ever does in thereSeriously you're going into a thread that's pretty much anti-"cyberbullying" but you do this shit? You're no better than he is.