Cutstuff Sanctuary

[Knux]

And you beat me to it, Freeman. I wish I could sprite something half that good even once.

[Kapus]

I tend to operate as if everyone thinks I'm a loser.
So, for example, if I go on about my opinion about something (like, say, Mario Kart 8's remade courses), I automatically assume people don't give a crap and are sick and tired of me going on about it.
And, for another example, whenever I draw, sprite, or doodle anything to do with my character, I also automatically assume people don't care, and they think my character's rubbish or something...
(To be honest, I'll probably feel a little better if someone assures me that this is not the case, as so far, I can only hopefully assume that this is not the case for my 1 friend that actually also considers me their friend at this place)

Humility is a wonderful quality to have, and something I admire in you. Just don't let it get you down in the dumps too much (hilarious to hear this coming from me). Don't feel bad about sharing your thoughts and ideas--this is a public forum. That's what we're supposed to do! I think your art is pretty neat, for the record.

When I draw stuff, I initially assume people don't care (who wants to see the nth drawing of Buggy?), but I post it in the art thread anyway because I love drawing and I love to share my art. And even then, there are actually several drawings I make that I don't post in the art thread anyway because I assume the general public wouldn't care. I don't let it get me down though because I draw for myself and my friends foremost.

Although I bet that the only reason why this is affecting me so much, is that I went from basically being friends with everybody in my (gifted) grade, to having virtually no friends at all, and the few ones I have, I usually do not share classes with them, EVEN THOUGH WE DO HAVE THE SAME CLASSES!

I LIVED MY ENTIRE LIFE HOMESCHOOLED I NEVER GOT TO HAVE ANY FRIENDS AT ALL

then again there weren't any bullies either so I'm not really complaining much. Still, every time someone describes highschool to me it sounds increasingly awful and I'm sorry you have to go through it.

So, in other words, unless I make friends with anyone, they don't care 'bout me, and forget I exist. YEP, THAT DEFINITELY MAKES ME FEEL HAPPY
'though this kinda explains why I enjoy being on this site, more than at school; more people actually take note of my existence (well, HOPEFULLY)

There's definitely not a strict binary here. There are several people out there that might like you and consider you cool despite not actually being your "friends".

(also I'm pretty happy being your friend but I don't talk too much because you're admittedly a bit hard to approach for me)

[Ceridran]

Humility is a wonderful quality to have, and something I admire in you.

I tried this "humility" thing once. I'm just too much of an idiot to not have turned it into self deprecation.

[Kapus]

Well it's kind of hard to do that sometimes, yeah, but I still think that extreme is more favorable than the other side of the spectrum (arrogance, entitlement, etc.)

[Laggy Blazko]

I browse 9gag.

Yep.

So I found this.

I make that kind of mistakes all the time. <_>

[Koal]

So, in other words, unless I make friends with anyone, they don't care 'bout me, and forget I exist. YEP, THAT DEFINITELY MAKES ME FEEL HAPPY

To be fair, nobody is obligated to care about you nor are you obligated to care about them. Such is the way of life. But better to receive no attention at all then to receive unwanted attention.

[Rui]

Hey now, human relationships are much more complex than just a simple mental decision to care or not.

It's not like you can just decide whether you care about someone or not as if it was some sort of visual novel, you know?

While unwanted attention from certain people can be aggravating, having attention for yourself when you need it can actually be very helpful. I mean, we all want to be noticed when we need it!

[Koal]

You don't quite know what the word obligation means, do you? If I spent my time trying to care about every damn person I meet then I would have no time for the people in my life that actually mean something to me. Maybe its just me, but coming to such decision's is extremely easy for me. Its mostly just the way I've been raised to care about my family and friends and nobody else.

[Rui]

obligation

... Ooohhh. My bad. I guess I mistook what you were saying as something insensitive to the issue.

Anyways, yeah, I totally get what you're saying, but
I think reaching out to new people sometimes may bring in a good new friend or maybe someone even more valuable.

[Geno]

Well, yeah, I know that there are some exceptions to that, and I know people aren't obligated to care about me, but the least they could do, is acknowledge my existence.

Like, once in gym class, the teams were divided evenly, and my team thought they were one person short because I did not exist to them.

Also, several times, somebody would bump into me, and instead of apoligizing, they'd WONDER HOW THEY COULD HAVE BUMPED INTO THIN AIR.

Stuff like that bugs me a ton.

Also,

then again there weren't any bullies either so I'm not really complaining much. Still, every time someone describes highschool to me it sounds increasingly awful and I'm sorry you have to go through it.

I am lucky, as the school board deemed me intelligent enough that I can go to special schools where there's more work.
I don't like the more work bit, but the high school that I'm at has 0% bullying.

honest engines

[<geminibro>]

I have ADHD and Autism, but only in a minority. And i have... A bit of a Stardroid obsession, to put it simple.

EDIT: Added Autism; forgot to put it on there.

[Hallan Parva]

I tend to operate as if everyone thinks I'm a loser.
So, for example, if I go on about my opinion about something (like, say, Mario Kart 8's remade courses), I automatically assume people don't give a crap and are sick and tired of me going on about it. And, for another example, whenever I draw, sprite, or doodle anything to do with my character, I also automatically assume people don't care, and they think my character's rubbish or something...

is that the reason I haven't seen anything Molly-related for a while now

c'mon Geno that's no good
I'd say inspirational things but everyone else beat me to the good stuff

your spriting is a marvel, there's a good reason you were handpicked for the 8BDM dev team


now go forth and show the world more Molly

[Beed28]

Everytime now I think to the events of last week or even think about "Mega May", I get a horrible feeling of depression in my stomach and makes me not want to do anything for a long while.

[Dataman]

I'm just going to say this now because It's all I really have to say right now that's actually relevant to this thread:

I'm pretty much the worst League of Legends player who ever lived. It's a miracle if I can take down a single Champion Bot.

[Korby]

you shouldn't expect to be amazing within a week of downloading the game. it takes a long time to get decent, and a longer time to get good.

I've been playing for more than three years and I'm still not as good as some people.